
29 Ways to Make Your Stepfamily Work
Creative and practical tips to help your
stepfamily survive and thrive
Kelly Kirkendoll Shafer

Kelly Kirkendoll Shafer is a mother of two
and stepmother of three and is host to the website
http://www.stepfamilieswork.com and she knows
her stuff.
Her book is an easy-to read sensible guide to
new families, and if you are embarking on the stepfamily trail you could
not do better than read it. The sad statistic is that 60% of second
marriages where there are children do not work out. Why?
Because according to the author couples bring unfinished business into
their new relationship. Also, even well-intentioned couples often fail to
recognize or address the realities of stepfamily life.
29 Ways to Make Your Stepfamily Work is
full of helpful practical tips and there are timely reminders too, for
example, about the fact that a remarriage is felt to be a gain for the
adults, whereas the children often see it as another loss.
Above all Kirkendoll Shafer urges patience -
creating a stepfamily that gels takes time. So if you are still struggling
after reading this book get some further help.
The book includes an excellent list of
recommended books to read and websites to visit.
Review published 11
November 2004
© Jill Curtis 2004
published by Spirited Life Press
e-book $8.95 paperback
$12.95
ISBN 1591136156
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